Rules and Pricing for Virtual  Groups You can attend online from Home Rules The groups will meet once a week for an hour and fifteen minutes, at the same time each week.  Each person will be able to see and hear each other person in the group, in little boxes on your computer screen or […]

  DOWN-SIZING AND SIMPLIFYING MY LIFE: FINDING THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE ARE FREE   At midlife, I had been building and launching both my family and my career for over 20 years.  Yet I reached a point where I couldn’t pay my bills or bond with my family.  I was stressed out from trying […]

  Applying Romans 14 to Marital Lovemaking   Spiritually, most Christians consider romantic touch a matter of individual conscience.  The Bible doesn’t give one set of behavioral guidelines here for everybody, so the principles of Romans 14 should certainly apply.  Let’s each read this chapter devotionally, letting it and God read us as we do.  […]

How to Talk with your Spouse about Counseling   How Much do I want to Help My Wife and our Relationship to Get Healthy too?   _____   Do I want my wife to receive the guidance and support that she needs to  become my partner in recovery? ______ If I am interacting with my wife in […]

HOW TO QUIT SMOKING   Wise people have had lots of trouble with nicotine. Mark Twain said, “Giving up smoking is the easiest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I ought to know. I’ve done it a hundred times.” Sigmund Freud died of a cancerous jaw caused by smoking cigars. He was clearly aware […]

HOW I WORK Unlike most counselors, I will give you lots of feedback during the first session.  My goal is always to outgrow my job, and I want you to have a taste of what my feedback, guidance and encouragement feels like before you decide whether to come back.  I often give my feedback on […]